My answer is that it doesn't matter! There is no such thing as a right or wrong decision. There is just the next step in the journey. I am a firm believer that there is only one this that you can control in this universe, and that is yourself; your thoughts and actions. This means that no matter the decisions made in the pivotal moment, the universe continues existing. Whether you are better or worse off as a result of the decision(s) made is entirely up to you. The key question(s) that you should be asking yourself are:
- Are you at peace with the outcome of the decisions you made? If you are not at peace, then why not? Typically, peace within oneself comes from staying true to yourself and accepting the outcome of your decisions. If you stay true to yourself, then you will not give a single fuck about what the rest of the universe is doing. There will just be you in the moment. This is in opposition to blaming everyone except yourself for the outcome. If you shirk responsibility and ownership of your destiny, then you are truly powerless.
- What can you do to change the outcome of the decision that you have made? Very often, the outcome of your decision will not be as you expect or want it to be. In those times, you will find peace by accepting the outcome as it is, without fighting it. As the universe moves, the timing of your desired outcome was simply not in that instance. Accept that your time will come, and you will find your destiny. In the meantime, continue honing your mental, physical, emotional and intellectual weapons in preparation to seize your right moment.